You find the letter on your desk. Someone you care about has quit. You were hoping it would work out. Now they have rejected you and your efforts.
It feels bad; perhaps really bad. You want to regain control, you want to try again, and you want to make things better, perhaps ….
Your business is going to be disrupted; your time will be absorbed in replacing and retraining.
Bummer!
Now, take a deep breath. What if they are right?
What if their leaving is for the best, for both of you?
Not everyone works out at every job. This doesn't make you a bad employer or them a bad employee.
The employee who quit may know something about themselves you don't know.
The employee who quit may realize they don't "get" your purpose; and aren't going to.
The employee who quit may realize they don't really like the demographics of your customers, the work, their co-workers, etc.
The employee who quit may have personal issues they don't want to share.
The employee who quit may have decided they really want to do something else.
There are many reasons, completely out of your control, why an employee may be best leaving, and you are best not to have them.
All of these will make them at best mediocre employees for you in the future; when you want excellence!
So when they quit don't overdo feeling bad, but accept it is a choice they must make.
I have always felt if someone didn't really want to work for me, and I couldn't make changes to make them really want to work for me, it was best to make a transition plan. Unfortunately we are often hindered by labor laws and legal fear that makes this harder than I would like, but it is important to do.
When the time comes, and we all lose people, let them go with grace and professionalism.
I have tucked a letter of reference into a quitter's last pay envelope. Saves me trying to respond in a timely manner to a future request and I am sure is a pleasant surprise for the departed.
We always wish everyone we hire will excel. But remember in baseball the best home run hitters also often strike out.
You may also be surprised that they may come back when their life changes; so always keep in contact with those you really want.
Rick